communication

Lynne says:
mummy bren bren...
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
ya
Lynne says:
moi was thinking hor.......will u feel that u are getting out of touch with the working world?
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
feeling out of touch depends on a person
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
i try to keep myself up to date
Lynne says:
cos me think mah...next time, if i wld to become a SAHM...
Lynne says:
wld i lose touch..and wld my husband mind?
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
but then of cos things are different when u are actally working
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
why think so far
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
its mentality of a person
Lynne says:
maybe watch too much drama..
Lynne says:
cos the wife might not know what happening on the outside world, be it fashion trend, money trend, business trend..etc etc..
Lynne says:
so the husband bound to meet capable and knowledgeable woman who are able to engage in conversation well...
Lynne says:
so me tot will the wife in the end become a left out person..hehe
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
when u say wife dont know, that means she does not bother to go find out or read
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
wah liao
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
watch too mch dramas
Lynne says:
told u liao mah...haha
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
as i say, its a personally thing
Lynne says:
or imagine the husband met some difficulty at work...and a Housewife might not be able to help..and when a working woman provides some advises...then...........u know what me trying to say...hehe
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
yes i now
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
frankly, its depends on how a person take an effort to know another person
Lynne says:
honesty, as much as i knew You...i've always tot that u are a capable mum and wife and friend.
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
like u say hubby has difficulty at work
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
in first place, will hubby share problem with wife
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
2nd, is wife willing to listen
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
even if she dont really understand, will she be wiling to read and learn more
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
and is hubby wiling to teach and explain
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
communication communication
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
if communication between couple is there
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
i dont c why there is any problem
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
you can't expect a person to know everything

As much as i knew what mummy bren bren shared, i thought, communication is about..digesting the conversation, assess the situation/scenario and resolve it together. I believe this simple theory also applies between friends, colleagues and family. Nobody knows everything. We are bound to meet problems, thus the need to ask, listen, comprehend and put the lesson to good use. On the other hand, communicating, to my understanding, can be information sharing or a way of bonding a relationship too.

Not every person you know have the luxury of time and patience to provide you a listening ear or a valuable lesson. However, if you value a person, you will find time for him/her. Well, say whatever you want, if i'm not close to a person, i wouldnt want to spend time and show my concern to him/her.

Hnmm, come to think of it, I am glad to have friends like Bren Bren and Mdm, who have been through certain aspect of life to provide valuable lessons. I have Ah Fan who will paste those 'links' on our MSN, information on those IT stuffs which I've NEVER NEVER enjoy reading or bother to know. And, poor Missy whom i whined my litany of complaints.

Ahhh......its just another random thoughts......