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yesterday was another quiet whimpers night...

i could hear my own hurt...

each tear was a call for help that had never been answered before...

and i wouldnt expect to be answered now either...

and that made me cry even more...

i felt better...

crying..a way to release my emotional stress...

before i knew it...

i slept till this morning...

another brand new day...

life's still goes on...

the boogie night

FUN! FUN! FUN!

IT WAS REALLY A FUN AND ENJOYABLE NIGHT! NO DOUBTS! ST JAMES!

Dragonfly was already darn crowded when we went in before 930pm. So, me happily went to the bar counter and grabbed one cute waiter:

L: we wana open two bottles. can you get a table for us? thanks.

W: sorry. there is no more table and its not like last time where you'll open bottle and we'll find you table. now, you find your own table and tell us what you want to drink and we'll bring it to your table.

KAOZ!!!! @@$$%@#@%$%^&*#@@!$#%$^^&%^@%#%%&^#@!!!#w#%!!! DARN HAO LIAN LOR! NEVERMIND! YOU WIN!

After a while of enjoying the live band, we decided to test out on other clubs. First was Powerhouse. Hmm, I din really like it though. The club played jazz music and there wasnt any live band to jam the club. We went the circumference of the club and out. Second was Movinda. Hmm, i like this place. There was live band playing salsa, latin music. Music was good and dancers was sexy. Happening! And the crowd wasnt that bad, working executives and professional.

We managed to find a table and opened our first Hennessy. hehe =p Cheers! Cheers! and Cheers! That's what we did for our first glass. Cheers to our friendship...Yeah!

As the music got more happening, Danny, Melvin, Irene and moi went to the dancefloor. Then when this song, 'tuo diao tuo diao' played, I shouted to danny, 'Danny tuo diao tuo diao'...and guess what happen...? This spontaneous danny began to do the sexy slow dance and roll his top up......AND.....some gal went 'wooh wooh' and look at his great bod with that 'wooh' look lor! And our danny went all shy and blushed over it...haha! The thought of it just make me laugh! haha!

We stayed for about 2 hours at Movinda before we re-queue to Dragonfly again. The bouncers was kind to us, they din made us wait so long to get in. And this time, we managed to find a table. So our second Chivas was ordered.

Sista Irene was at dragonfly too. So Happy! It been some time since we last club together. Our happening days was during poly where we club every week - Wed Mambo, Fri and Sat Samsara. hehe! I joined her for a while and made some new friends. Of which, another danny, was actually felicia's sec sch mate. Whatha small world! We played 5-10 and this lousy lynn literally lost every games and DRINK LOR. boring! Every 3 games u lost, additional one mouth. Shit man! Can you imagine how many glasses i drink when i lost more than 10 rounds? Its bloody 5 glasses CONTINUOUSLY lor. Or more than that? oopsie. Drank till i tremble siaz! haha I know i lousy lah, you must be thinking! hmph! The best escape route - 'sorry huh, you guys enjoy while i shall join my friends, i shall come back later ok'. hehe phewww! However, moi already started to get the 'kick' of liquer already. hee

The night is still young! However, it does pass very fast with great companions and good drinks. We took pictures, danced and drank together. It was about 4pm before we knew its time to go home. By then, some of us were slightly tipsy already. Me too! hehe Our finale of the night - POP! hehe. POPs to many more gathering may comes...yeah!

This was definitely the first clubbing gathering where many closed friends party together. Especially with Weilun joining us. He's known as our bookworm, you know...Everyone went 'wah! so suprised to see you here man!' hehe We thought he would only buried in books. Din know he can drink leh! hehe

No words can describe how much i enjoyed the night with my this bunch of fun loving friends. And i knew im in safe hand when situation turns bad. And i dun have to be so mindful of my behaviour and image. hehe.

Sally, sharon and kira, you gals should join us next time ok! It would be more fun with you gals around. =p

the 10 besties

POPs!

my closest friends

taking pictures while re-queuing hehe

The dudes of the night

3 jokers fooling around..hehe

qun and jones playing the xi shua game. hehe

my closest friends and squadmates

my sista irene. that ah liu came in in time for that natural funny shot..hehe

Rest of the pictures here.

I've Got To Break Free

But life still goes on

I cant get used to living without living without

Living without you by my side

I dont want to live alone hey

God knows got to make it on my own

Ive got to break free

I want to break free yeah

Mdm's lil' Cheryl

Mdm! i really like your Cheryl. She is sucha sweetie pie. I wish i've a daughter like lil' Cheryl in future - with big round eyes that speaks, her influential laughter that bring a smile and brightens up one's day and a jumpy bubbly playful personality that makes one wana play with her.

Cheryl behaved so at ease with strangers lor. Not like other kiddos in the house, whom will turn away or shake their head or keep silent when you talk to them. She is not bashful at all. Hmm..I believe she will grow up with a bold and confident character, just like mdm.

Aiyo...Cheryl is really sucha lovable kid....cant get enough of her. hehe

fatter and fatter

For a TAM JIA PO like moi, i MUST eat and i LOVE a wide variety of food for a good meal. Soooooo........i always exercise to keep the guilt away and of course, for good health and not to put on weight lah.

Sigh...i have not been exercising for the past 1 month as i was on medication. Drugs made my body weak! I knew you guys gona say, 'EXCUSES LAH' or 'SICK ALREADY CAN EAT GOOD FOOD CANNOT EXERCISE LAH'! But..........do you wana see or hear me faint on the running track?????? I fainted a few times lor, mind you. haha Needless to say, I PUT ON WEIGHT AND MY STOMACH IS GETTING BIGGER!! *sob sob*

Some gals can eat and eat and eat without putting on weight. SO ENVY! The more i eat the fatter i become...SHIT MAN!

I can be lazy too. I always trade running or yoga with meeting friends or shopping. Afterall, there's always 'tomorrow then exercise.' haha!

Anyway, some peeks to brighten my blog. =p

SEE! how to resist temptation?!?!

Rest of the peektures here.

communication

Lynne says:
mummy bren bren...
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
ya
Lynne says:
moi was thinking hor.......will u feel that u are getting out of touch with the working world?
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
feeling out of touch depends on a person
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
i try to keep myself up to date
Lynne says:
cos me think mah...next time, if i wld to become a SAHM...
Lynne says:
wld i lose touch..and wld my husband mind?
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
but then of cos things are different when u are actally working
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
why think so far
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
its mentality of a person
Lynne says:
maybe watch too much drama..
Lynne says:
cos the wife might not know what happening on the outside world, be it fashion trend, money trend, business trend..etc etc..
Lynne says:
so the husband bound to meet capable and knowledgeable woman who are able to engage in conversation well...
Lynne says:
so me tot will the wife in the end become a left out person..hehe
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
when u say wife dont know, that means she does not bother to go find out or read
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
wah liao
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
watch too mch dramas
Lynne says:
told u liao mah...haha
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
as i say, its a personally thing
Lynne says:
or imagine the husband met some difficulty at work...and a Housewife might not be able to help..and when a working woman provides some advises...then...........u know what me trying to say...hehe
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
yes i now
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
frankly, its depends on how a person take an effort to know another person
Lynne says:
honesty, as much as i knew You...i've always tot that u are a capable mum and wife and friend.
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
like u say hubby has difficulty at work
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
in first place, will hubby share problem with wife
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
2nd, is wife willing to listen
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
even if she dont really understand, will she be wiling to read and learn more
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
and is hubby wiling to teach and explain
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
communication communication
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
if communication between couple is there
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
i dont c why there is any problem
Brenda 李曼玲 says:
you can't expect a person to know everything

As much as i knew what mummy bren bren shared, i thought, communication is about..digesting the conversation, assess the situation/scenario and resolve it together. I believe this simple theory also applies between friends, colleagues and family. Nobody knows everything. We are bound to meet problems, thus the need to ask, listen, comprehend and put the lesson to good use. On the other hand, communicating, to my understanding, can be information sharing or a way of bonding a relationship too.

Not every person you know have the luxury of time and patience to provide you a listening ear or a valuable lesson. However, if you value a person, you will find time for him/her. Well, say whatever you want, if i'm not close to a person, i wouldnt want to spend time and show my concern to him/her.

Hnmm, come to think of it, I am glad to have friends like Bren Bren and Mdm, who have been through certain aspect of life to provide valuable lessons. I have Ah Fan who will paste those 'links' on our MSN, information on those IT stuffs which I've NEVER NEVER enjoy reading or bother to know. And, poor Missy whom i whined my litany of complaints.

Ahhh......its just another random thoughts......

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