msn with Brenda

Was msn-ing with Brenda and she just woke me outta nowhere!

Brenda Lee says:
let me ask u... u r 25 this year... what hv u accomplished so far...
Brenda Lee says:
what do u want in life... be realistic
Brenda Lee says:
25 is not young neither old... time waits for no man, u know.
£¥ñÑë says:
hmm, good qns, i accomplished nothing so far, career not yet, $ also not alot, study also gota hold. my gosh you wake me up
Brenda Lee says:
so when do u intend to get them done
Brenda Lee says:
what do u want out of yr career
Brenda Lee says:
study.... planning to get a degree
£¥ñÑë says:
hmm, u asking me qns that i din really asked myself or prepared to ans you
Brenda Lee says:
then do it.
Brenda Lee says:
u hv to fight for what u want.... goals r set to be accomplished.

On the other hand, i'd like to learn from her the positive mindset in handling her life.

Brenda Lee says:
to me... don't bother abt thinks u hear or see which does not relate to your personal life.
Brenda Lee says:
if it happens to me, i will deal with it then.
Brenda Lee says:
anyone can have change of heart, so i always tell my gf... be prepared.
£¥ñÑë says:
hmm, true also, why paranoid yourself with unnecessary
Brenda Lee says:
make sure u hv enough savings.
Brenda Lee says:
when i say prepared... means u shd be indpendent, don't be too relent on the partner.
Brenda Lee says:
if anything happens, u know that u can still stand on yr two feet
£¥ñÑë says:
hmm, agreed.
£¥ñÑë says:
been reading thread from singaporebrides forum
£¥ñÑë says:
read a couple of stories on affairs, preparation for marriage, etc
Brenda Lee says:
here is my opinion... reading is fine, just don't get negative things too much into yr head....
£¥ñÑë says:
ut am not prepare for marriage in case you gona ask me next.
Brenda Lee says:
u shd know yrself best... others bad experience may not necessary happen to u... just learn from their experience Brenda Lee says:
marriage is a big commitment. if not prepare, don't enter.
£¥ñÑë says:
wah, you really have a strong positive mindset.
Brenda Lee says:
i try to be positive in life.... nothing is end of the world unless u r dead.
Brenda Lee says:
to me... everyone has a choice...


Time for some reflections again....duh......